ESLintLanguageServer and JSTSLanguageServer do not support node memory limits (--max-old-space-size)

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tangentially related to #1936

both ESLintLanguageServer and JSTSLanguageServer do not support node memory limits (--max-old-space-size) unlike launches that use getInitializationOptions to inherit the org.eclipse.wildwebdeveloper.maxTsServerMemory setting.

Internal ticket: PDINC-12768

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