Can't connect using relay with self hosted Noray server

[Mouthless-Stoat]

I am trying to host my own noray server. The game can connect to the server just fine and I have all the port recommended on the readme open on my firewall and on my router (8809, 8890, 8891, 49152-51200). But when I try to actually connetc 2 game client to each other they can't seem to establish handshake both using NAT and relay. If i turn on debug logging on my server console, I can see that the client attempt to connect using relay and that the server created a relay for them even replying with the relay, but the client can't establish a handshake for whatever reason.

Sever log:

[11:50:29.012] INFO (noray/5511): Started noray in 219.05981699999998 ms
[11:50:37.663] INFO (cmd:register-host/6jDEiAhXKOCal9OtD8DvkuPr4IvJ_REcf6VzqCnUmTjCr_YgYYNBjQ-n0n5J8x13aIR_x8nQsmGjTA2PKwfxfgwPlfVJ5NrKUCAEIfo2sJcIkfODtnQ8tU7pJiOTweiJ): Registered host from address <MY-IP>:55472
    oid: "aE5SZfMRrVPSo9elcgg7v"
[11:50:37.671] INFO (cmd:register-host/F2gtLv2-Fg9XcxyG6zdMgY_nEQnvSY3CwdvfSGSYxfU7VbvK8n02-F1CyNj9Fg-3VGqFUNdFYUxQl4AY6HVsFcqrMzJJb6xuNeTRFwvPrQ_YVNRmuFEDOpfSHxaPRj_S): Registered host from address <MY-IP>:55484
    oid: "P_6xE7MoAVBXYPck_-MzY"
[11:50:37.684] DEBUG (UDPRemoteRegistrar/6jDEiAhXKOCal9OtD8DvkuPr4IvJ_REcf6VzqCnUmTjCr_YgYYNBjQ-n0n5J8x13aIR_x8nQsmGjTA2PKwfxfgwPlfVJ5NrKUCAEIfo2sJcIkfODtnQ8tU7pJiOTweiJ): Received UDP relay request
    rinfo: {
      "address": "<MY-IP>",
      "family": "IPv4",
      "port": 37982,
      "size": 128
    }
[11:50:37.684] DEBUG (UDPRemoteRegistrar/F2gtLv2-Fg9XcxyG6zdMgY_nEQnvSY3CwdvfSGSYxfU7VbvK8n02-F1CyNj9Fg-3VGqFUNdFYUxQl4AY6HVsFcqrMzJJb6xuNeTRFwvPrQ_YVNRmuFEDOpfSHxaPRj_S): Received UDP relay request
    rinfo: {
      "address": "<MY-IP>",
      "family": "IPv4",
      "port": 39042,
      "size": 128
    }
[11:50:37.766] DEBUG (UDPRemoteRegistrar/6jDEiAhXKOCal9OtD8DvkuPr4IvJ_REcf6VzqCnUmTjCr_YgYYNBjQ-n0n5J8x13aIR_x8nQsmGjTA2PKwfxfgwPlfVJ5NrKUCAEIfo2sJcIkfODtnQ8tU7pJiOTweiJ): Received UDP relay request
    rinfo: {
      "address": "<MY-IP>",
      "family": "IPv4",
      "port": 37982,
      "size": 128
    }
[11:50:37.783] DEBUG (UDPRemoteRegistrar/F2gtLv2-Fg9XcxyG6zdMgY_nEQnvSY3CwdvfSGSYxfU7VbvK8n02-F1CyNj9Fg-3VGqFUNdFYUxQl4AY6HVsFcqrMzJJb6xuNeTRFwvPrQ_YVNRmuFEDOpfSHxaPRj_S): Received UDP relay request
    rinfo: {
      "address": "<MY-IP>",
      "family": "IPv4",
      "port": 39042,
      "size": 128
    }
^[[11:50:56.150] DEBUG (cmd:connect-relay/5511): Client attempting to connect to host
    oid: "P_6xE7MoAVBXYPck_-MzY"
    client: "<MY-IP>:55472"
[11:50:56.150] DEBUG (cmd:connect-relay/5511): Ensuring relay for both parties
[11:50:56.151] DEBUG (UDPRelayHandler/5511): Creating relay
    relay: {
      "address": {
        "address": "<MY-IP>",
        "port": 39042
      },
      "lastSent": 0,
      "lastReceived": 0,
      "created": 1779547856.1510122
    }
[11:50:56.151] DEBUG (UDPRelayHandler/5511): Creating relay
    relay: {
      "address": {
        "address": "<MY-IP>",
        "port": 37982
      },
      "lastSent": 0,
      "lastReceived": 0,
      "created": 1779547856.151569
    }
[11:50:56.151] DEBUG (cmd:connect-relay/5511): Replying with relay
    host: 51200
    client: 51199
[11:50:56.152] DEBUG (cmd:connect-relay/5511): Connected client to host
    client: "<MY-IP>:55472"
    relay: 51200
    oid: "P_6xE7MoAVBXYPck_-MzY"

Router Port Forwarding:

Output from sudo iptables -S

-A nixos-fw -p tcp -m tcp --dport 8890 -j nixos-fw-accept
-A nixos-fw -p tcp -m tcp --dport 8891 -j nixos-fw-accept
-A nixos-fw -p udp -m udp --dport 8809 -j nixos-fw-accept
-A nixos-fw -p udp -m udp --dport 8890 -j nixos-fw-accept
-A nixos-fw -p udp -m udp --dport 8891 -j nixos-fw-accept
-A nixos-fw -p udp -m udp --dport 49152:51200 -j nixos-fw-accept

The .env. is just the .env.example (without the .example ofc)

The Noray server is latest from this repo and the Godot addon version is 1.35.3. The code for the noray connection and network handling work with the test address tomfol.io and port 8890 but not with my self-hosted server.

[elementbound]

Hey @Mouthless-Stoat,

Let me bombard you with some questions 😄

• Are you running noray and your game on a separate device?
• Are these devices on separate networks?
• Are you running noray in a Docker image, or directly through node?
• Do you have any relevant logs from the game you can show?
• Can you confirm any data flow between the game instances? I.e. is handshake data being sent or received at all?

[Mouthless-Stoat]

• I try both on the same device and different device either work
• I try them in the same and different network. I even connected them together with a cable and make then run thru that
• Mainly try running using pnpm as I can;t get docker
• I don't have the exact log anymore But i can see message like it connected to the host, and it got a remote port. I try to send a message thru for the relay but it never got anything back from the server
• Idk how to check that last one.