dmypy: warn instead of failing if report generation is configured (#10181)

### Description
Log a warning instead of failing when `dmypy run` is called on a project that has report generation configured via setup.cfg

Resolves #10118 

## Test Plan

1. Built package locally
2. Installed into my virtualenv
3. Created test project with mypy.ini contents:
    ```ini
    [mypy]
    html_report = build/html
    ```
1. Ran `dmypy run .`

Result:

```
dmypy run .
dmypy: ignoring report generation settings. Start/restart cannot generate reports.
Daemon started
```

Author: natemcmaster

mypy/dmypy_server.py

@@ -135,10 +135,11 @@ def process_start_options(flags: List[str], allow_sources: bool) -> Options:
         ['-i'] + flags, require_targets=False, server_options=True
     )
     if options.report_dirs:
-        sys.exit("dmypy: start/restart cannot generate reports")
+        print("dmypy: Ignoring report generation settings. Start/restart cannot generate reports.")
     if options.junit_xml:
-        sys.exit("dmypy: start/restart does not support --junit-xml; "
-                 "pass it to check/recheck instead")
+        print("dmypy: Ignoring report generation settings. "
+              "Start/restart does not support --junit-xml. Pass it to check/recheck instead")
+        options.junit_xml = None
     if not options.incremental:
         sys.exit("dmypy: start/restart should not disable incremental mode")
     if options.follow_imports not in ('skip', 'error', 'normal'):