add validation + quickfix to adopt `@ApplicationModuleListener`

[martinlippert]

Add a valuation that checks for:

• does the project use Spring Modulith?
• is a method annotated with @Async, @Transactional, @TransactionalEventListener

if this applies to a method, add a reconciler diagnostics that tells users that they can use @ApplicationModuleListener instead and offer a quick fix that replaces those three annotations with @ApplicationModuleListener.

Keep in mind to transfer corresponding annotation attributes when refactoring this to @ApplicationModuleListener.