BUG: estimate_pandas_size on arrow based pandas dataframe raises pyarrow.lib.ArrowInvalid: offset overflow while concatenating arrays

[codingl2k1]

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  File "/Users/codingl2k1/Work/xorbits/python/xorbits/_mars/utils.py", line 496, in calc_data_size
    return estimate_pandas_size(dt)
  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/Work/xorbits/python/xorbits/_mars/utils.py", line 571, in estimate_pandas_size
    sample_size = sys.getsizeof(iloc[indices])
  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pandas/core/indexing.py", line 1103, in __getitem__
    return self._getitem_axis(maybe_callable, axis=axis)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pandas/core/indexing.py", line 1647, in _getitem_axis
    return self._get_list_axis(key, axis=axis)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pandas/core/indexing.py", line 1618, in _get_list_axis
    return self.obj._take_with_is_copy(key, axis=axis)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pandas/core/generic.py", line 3948, in _take_with_is_copy
    result = self._take(indices=indices, axis=axis)
  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pandas/core/generic.py", line 3932, in _take
    new_data = self._mgr.take(
  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pandas/core/internals/managers.py", line 963, in take
    return self.reindex_indexer(
  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pandas/core/internals/managers.py", line 747, in reindex_indexer
    new_blocks = [
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pandas/core/internals/managers.py", line 748, in <listcomp>
    blk.take_nd(
^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pandas/core/internals/blocks.py", line 945, in take_nd
    new_values = algos.take_nd(
  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pandas/core/array_algos/take.py", line 114, in take_nd
    return arr.take(indexer, fill_value=fill_value, allow_fill=allow_fill)
  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pandas/core/arrays/arrow/array.py", line 1035, in take
    return type(self)(self._data.take(indices))
^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "pyarrow/table.pxi", line 1029, in pyarrow.lib.ChunkedArray.take
  File "/Users/codingl2k1/.pyenv/versions/3.11.4/lib/python3.11/site-packages/pyarrow/compute.py", line 482, in take
    return call_function('take', [data, indices], options, memory_pool)
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "pyarrow/_compute.pyx", line 572, in pyarrow._compute.call_function
  File "pyarrow/_compute.pyx", line 367, in pyarrow._compute.Function.call
  File "pyarrow/error.pxi", line 144, in pyarrow.lib.pyarrow_internal_check_status
  File "pyarrow/error.pxi", line 100, in pyarrow.lib.check_status
pyarrow.lib.ArrowInvalid: [address=127.0.0.1:59388, pid=61917] offset overflow while concatenating arrays

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Python 3.11.4
pandas 2.0.3
pyarrow 12.0.1

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Similar issue: apache/arrow#33049