fix(hierarchical-grid): do not use hierarchy pipe data when data is explicitly set by user

[ddaribo]

... for example in the Load On Demand scenario, where data is separately assigned for each child grid.
Closes #13881

Note for testing: cover this scenario as well #13495

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