Add PYBIND11_MAKE_OPAQUE to type_erased_module.cc

[jparismorgan]

What

Here we add PYBIND11_MAKE_OPAQUE to type_erased_module.cc, as the docs say if your binding code consists of multiple compilation units, it must be present in every file.

We also add some more common types which were missing.

I tested performance, but it seems the same, which makes sense because we don't use std::vector to pass anything in type_erased_module.cc. But it's still seems good to set up this pattern while I was investigating what PYBIND11_MAKE_OPAQUE does.

Testing

• Tests pass.
• This definitely changed something because when I first add these to type_erased_module.cc, the CI failed with a new error: https://github.com/TileDB-Inc/TileDB-Vector-Search/actions/runs/10269341077/job/28414557952?pr=482