Batch asset active queries with configurable size

[stevemostovoy-openai]

Add asset_active_batch_size config (default 500) and batch asset activation/orphaning SQL to keep IN clauses manageable. This fixes a 'psycopg2.errors.StatementTooComplex' error where this query can exceed the maximum stack depth in some cases.

Add unit tests for batched selects / deletes.

New tests: pytest airflow-core/tests/unit/jobs/test_scheduler_job.py -k asset_batch

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