late initialize fields that get defaulted by AWS

[michaelhtm]

Issue #2695 && #2622

Description of changes:
Some spec fields get default values from AWS after they are created.
These defaults cause the controller to keep requeuing, trying to set
them to null. With these changes, we late initialize these fields,
ensuring they are defaulted if the user does not define them

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@michaelhtm: The following test failed, say /retest to rerun all failed tests or /retest-required to rerun all mandatory failed tests:

Test name	Commit	Details	Required	Rerun command
rds-verify-code-gen	5f602da	link	false	/test rds-verify-code-gen

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[tomreece]

Other controllers exhibit similar behavior where diffs are detected and shouldn't be. Any plans to do this in more than just RDS controller?

[shabbskagalwala]

+1 for this change. Ran into a similar issue

aws-controllers-k8s/community#2683 (comment)