fix: explain update sql panic

[zhyass]

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Summary

This PR fixes the panic bug that occurs during explain analyze update, and also refactors the bind process for the mutation MutationStrategy::Direct scenario, add RelOperator::Filter to undergo optimization.
Additionally, it enriches the explain output information for updates and deletes.
And fixed the bug where explain analyze might lead to SQL being commit for execution.

mysql> explain update t1 set a = a + 1 where a > 2;
+-----------------------------------------------------------------+
| explain                                                         |
+-----------------------------------------------------------------+
| CommitSink                                                      |
| └── MutationSource(Update)                                      |
|     ├── table: default.default.t1                               |
|     ├── output columns: [a (#0), b (#1), _predicate (#2)]       |
|     ├── filters: [is_true(t1.a (#0) > 2)]                       |
|     ├── read rows: 4                                            |
|     ├── read size: < 1 KiB                                      |
|     ├── partitions total: 1                                     |
|     └── partitions scanned: 1                                   |
+-----------------------------------------------------------------+
9 rows in set (0.16 sec)
Read 0 rows, 0.00 B in 0.026 sec., 0 rows/sec., 0.00 B/sec.


mysql> explain analyze update t1 set a = a + 1 where a > 2;
+-------------------------------------------------------------+
| explain                                                     |
+-------------------------------------------------------------+
| MutationSource(Update)                                      |
| ├── table: default.default.t1                               |
| ├── output columns: [a (#0), b (#1), _predicate (#2)]       |
| ├── filters: [is_true(t1.a (#0) > 2)]                       |
| ├── read rows: 4                                            |
| ├── read size: < 1 KiB                                      |
| ├── partitions total: 1                                     |
| ├── partitions scanned: 1                                   |
| ├── cpu time: 8.709041ms                                    |
| ├── wait time: 3.026267ms                                   |
| ├── output rows: 4                                          |
| ├── output bytes: 35.00 B                                   |
| └── partitions scanned: 1                                   |
+-------------------------------------------------------------+
13 rows in set (0.28 sec)
Read 4 rows, 34.00 B in 0.082 sec., 48.75 rows/sec., 414.42 B/sec.

• fixes: bug: explain update sql panic #17317

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