wasm: support new sandbox controller api and flag parser #1127

Job	Run time
checks (vmm/sandbox, --all-features)	1m 19s
tests (vmm/sandbox, --all-features)	2m 51s
checks (vmm/task, --all-features)	1m 17s
tests (vmm/task, --all-features)	2m 43s
tests (shim, --all-features)	2m 33s
checks (shim, --all-features)	1m 21s
tests (quark, --all-features)	2m 33s
checks (quark, --all-features)	1m 5s
tests (runc, --all-features)	2m 30s
checks (runc, --all-features)	1m 12s
tests (wasm, --features=wasmedge, 0.13.5)	2m 50s
checks (wasm, --features=wasmedge, 0.13.5)	1m 21s
tests (wasm, --features=wasmtime)	2m 50s
checks (wasm, --features=wasmtime)	1m 21s
	27m 46s

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