Add migration run in background mode

[chenyukang]

What problem does this PR solve?

Fix the issue that db migration may cost long time.
Fix #3683 by the way.

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

• Add run in background option and strategy for future migrations
• Add migration from fix: fix vm version select #4218 as the first migration run in background

What's Changed:

Related changes

• PR to update owner/repo:
• Need to cherry-pick to the release branch

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code ci-runs-only: [ quick_checks,linters ]

Side effects

• Performance regression
• Breaking backward compatibility

Release note

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