Add basic troubleshooting step when lock cannot be acquired

[bparks13]

For all port controllers, if communication lock cannot be acquired add a line with the basic step of "Confirm the headstage port is turned on".

Fixes #496

[aacuevas]

Regarding the manual voltage message, I'd write something like
"If the problem persists, you may need..." or something

Make it clear that port checking should go first. Writing a big value there is dangerous, so we need to make it clear that it's not something to try lightly

[cjsha]

imo, the wording should be more severe or suggest more caution than it currently does.

[cjsha]

I'm wary to recommend applying a higher voltage than the maximum automatic value without caveats about how this should only need to be done in experiments that involve extra long/thin wires or something like that. But this might require more explanation than what we'd want in an exception dialog or whateva.

[aacuevas]

I agree. It's a fine line between being informative enough and too verbose. And it's unfortunate that we cannot add working links to the dialog, so we cannot just link to an explanation website.

[bparks13]

If we need to add a link so that we can move the nuance from the pop-up to a web browser, I can create a custom message box with a LinkLabel so we can link out to the documentation. That might be outside the scope of this current issue, but we can move the discussion to a new issue and work out the specifics there

[bparks13]

Never mind, this message is being passed up to the Bonsai exception handler. Unable to create a custom message box