Update Dynamic NoC sw counter before issue NoC txns

[yugaoTT]

We have a race condition between l1 write of sw counter and issue noc txn.
if noc0 issues a write after noc1, noc1 does the barrier and the barrier succeeds it doesn’t mean that noc1's write landed.

Solution, update counter before issue noc txn (swap the green box)

NOC transaction:
Write the SW counter
Issue NOC transaction
Barrier:
while !done
Read HW counter
Read SW counter

Checklist

• [All post commit] https://github.com/tenstorrent/tt-metal/actions/runs/13729898104
• [Blackhole Post commit] https://github.com/tenstorrent/tt-metal/actions/runs/13729910897